Too Many Emotions!

It's been a while since I've posted but it just keeps getting worse at home with my daughter. And this past week while my granddaughter was sick was the absolute worse. My daughter is a callous, self-centered, selfish ******! I seriously can't wait until I have legal custody of Anna (something my dd seems to want to happen like yesterday so she can rid herself of responsibility). Now my dd wants to start dating a guy who just started working with her. He's working there on a work release program from prison and was incarcerate for drug dealing!! I told my daughter if she even thinks about trying to bring him here, they're both going to get mangled and thrown in the dumpster! My daughter has seen my temper before but she's never seen the "South Philly" come out yet and she'd better pray she doesn't! How in the world can she even think about bring someone like that home around her daughter!!! The drunk was bad enough... and oh yeah it seems this new guy knows the drunk and he's out for blood. The drunk hit the prison guys young son who is now deaf in one ear from it. Well, now at least I have a good idea of why the drunk can't see his own son.
Where is my daughter's head??? I NEVER EVER was around people like this. I don't do drugs and have never kept alcohol in my house. I've tried to raise my daughter to be responsible, made sure she never went without basics, gave her the love any mother wants their child to have. The only time you'll see her show compassion for her own daughter is when someone else is around.
Poor Anna was sick all least week (infections in both ear, tonsils and sinsuses) and my daughter pretty much ignored Anna. All Anna wanted was to be comforted and loved because she didn't feel good but my daughter thought the computer and meeting guys off the Internet was more important. Of course I made sure Anna had her medicine and gave her lot of love and cuddles, she even slep with me in my bed all week because her mother is a miserable grouch when she's tired. My daughter's attitude was I'm trying sleep to be quiet! Excuse me, but that poor baby was in pain, had a fever and felt horrible. Now my daughter is sick and she expects sympathy from me. Yeah right, she can go bite herself.
Soon I'll have legal custody and I'm so torn because I'm at a point where Heather is going to have to leave. I can't have this **** around Anna, it's not right. Anna deserves to be loved and treated like the sweet little lady she is. She doesn't not need to be around creeps and drug dealers! Not in my home and certainly not around ANY child.